Plus I may have to stop publicly commenting at all
NN I love you. I know you are trying hard to update things, and keep the site "current" . I don't however appreciate the breaches in my privacy with no warning, or choice. I also know you prob. wanted to surprise us with the latest update, but exposing our personal details to everyone who is a premium member is a bit far. IMO, especially without an opt out option.
I also appreciate that you took reporting of a friend's login off until you have an opt out option. Can we please have an opt out for the whole thing?
I really hate being negative on this cuz I truly appreciate what you're trying to do but I have a few problems with this, and please correct me if I'm wrong..
The notifications show every comment you make on pictures, blogs, and threads on the forum you posted on. This is a recipe for disaster. IMO. There is no reason for someone to have that much knowledge about me all at their finger tips, on my friend's list or not. What purpose does this serve other then to cause hurt feelings, and jealousy? Yes you make these comments technically publicly, but some weren't all THAT public before!(pic and blog comments etc.)
I can see the PM's in my future now! "How come you told him he has a nice cock? I thought you liked mine?" or "You said at 10 p.m. you were going to bed, then I see you commented on his pic at 10:15! pm"
The stalking issue is another problem with this, many of us have people here we'd rather not have that kind of knowledge and to suddenly turn the friends list into something that actually means something with no notice wasn't very nice. Had we known maybe we could have mass deleted at least.
I'm leaving things as they are for now but if this stays the way it is, I'm deleting everyone off my friend's list. So it's nothing personal but I don't have the time, or the means to investigate every person before accepting them as a "friend" on an amature porn site! And I'm just not comfortable with the exposure.
Sorry to be so negative, I don't want to rain on your parade, but you did ask for feedback
Edit~ For those who have no idea what I'm talking about check out
[url]http://prem.newbienudes.com/forum/default.asp?topicid=92822&d=55201123300[/url]
or just click on the New! at the top right of the page. lol