Well, 21 years ago today I got married on a beautiful beach to a beautiful, smart, down to earth woman. It was a great, just us on a little get away. Fabulous day spent in the sun and surf, we went to bed that night and she told me she couldn't make love because she felt so guilty about a divorce from years earlier. WTH? And so it went for many years; our love life would improve when her kids were grown and left home. Our love life when improve when the stress of work wasn't so much. Our love life would improve when... You get the idea. We went to counciling many times, discussed what we could do. I did everything I could think of and way more, she always said it was her fault, not mine, that she was just "screwed up". So, after many years I had an affair. She asked me if I was and I said yes. Pissed her off like crazy. Of course she had not had sex at all with me for over a year leading up to that. No matter. That was two years ago. At her request I moved out. We would have been long since divorced except she has rejected every one of the 3 offers made in the settlement. Seems she wants virtually all of our assets and none of our debt, she feels entitled because I cheated on her. The courts have it now, I want it to be over and done so I can get on with my life and she with hers.
We hear a lot of talk these days about same sex marriages, I can tell you that is a falsehood, sex was never the same after I got married! LOL. I hope everyone has a great day today, I think I will, in the words of Otter from Animal House, "go make a really stupid and meaningless gesture"!!!! |