Was wondering if we, as people on this site are self-indulgent?
Are we giving in to some hidden dark desires - or to promote ourselves by saying " hey look at me" "I need you to tell me that I have a beautiful body" "I need repetitive assurance that I am the best - because I don't think I am" ..............
The following meanings are taken from:
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/self-indulgentself-indulgent
adj self-indulgent
too ready to satisfy one's own desires self-indulgent habits/behaviour.
n self-indulgence
Adj. 1. self-indulgent - indulgent of your own appetites and desires; "a self-indulgent...way of looking at life"- Havelock Ellis
indulgent - characterized by or given to yielding to the wishes of someone ; "indulgent grandparents"
Basically - Who gives a flying fuck?
I am here because I want to be, I have nothing to prove to anyone!
I Like to post pics of not only myself but hubby aswell, If ya do not vote or leave a comment - that is no problem, if you don't like what we post then just bypass us and move along ... you do not have to leave a nasty comment etc. Find something you do like and enjoy.
There are plenty of people out there that just post pics because they are after admiration and approval and such like. They are 10 a penny and not worth a second look!
Just depends what you are looking for and what you want out of life.
I have a life outside of NN.
I look after our house, I make sure the house is clean and tidy for Rocky when he comes home from work, I make sure he has a good meal in the evenings, I bake things for him to enjoy. I make Love with Him in the Best of ways, I tease him, I Love Him and I enjoy Him
I have fun in here and out there!
That is what Life is all about!
I do not spend 12-18 hours a day on NN - as I said I have a Life as well
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I come and go as I choose, someday's I do not enter the NN World at all.
Well, now that was heavy
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Love and Hugs,
Elle x