NoSecrets's Blog - page 4

Enjoy all those picnics and barbecues!


xoxox

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone!


MWAH!

How the hell is everyone?

Missed this place, believe it or not. lol


xoxox

Some of the pics used in this could have come from here!

I don't know what it is with this summer....

It's kept me on such an emotional roller coaster....

Maybe I'll be back this winter....

xoxoxo

Had to make the telephone call; it was the right thing to do.Still makes me so sad though I had to call the Vet. for my doggy's last appointment I'm going to miss him something fierce. I feel like I'm losing my child, or more likely, my best friend

Friday is the day for his suffering to end, and mine to begin.

NN said on my last blog entry "Ok ...

So we fixed it so you can have it that your friends don't see comments you make on pics as you requested.

That wasn't sufficient, and now you are asking that they don't get notified of your posts on blogs or status updates!

MAKES NO SENSE - why would you comment if you don't want anyone - ESPECIALLY your NN "Friends" so see your contributions to those discussions?

You may as well ask for a feature "Don't show ANYONE ANYTHING I post on the site"

Do you see where it's going? If you don't want anyone, especially your "friends" to see stuff you contribute - why are you contributing?"




First off could you show me where I ever requested that "your friends don't see comments you make on pics "? I'd like to see that.

I think I've been pretty consistent, and clear with my concerns about notifications. In fact I even said way back before you changed the pic notifications (2 blog entries ago)

"This was never about pic commments per se for me. It has always been more about blogs and my fellow blogger friends. We regular old time bloggers are a pretty close knit community, and we tend to blog about some very intimate things, I didn't feel right about exposing my friend's blog that maybe talks about their sick kid, or any other personal problem to the guys I talk anal sex with! "

I thought that was quite clear. So where did I request "your friends don't see comments you make on pics " again?


"You may as well ask for a feature "Don't show ANYONE ANYTHING I post on the site"


Is that what we had before notifications? Cuz I thought that worked just fine.


"Do you see where it's going? If you don't want anyone, especially your "friends" to see stuff you contribute - why are you contributing?"


Why did I, or anyone contribute before notifications???



Honestly NN you aren't making much sense to me, and to be even more honest with you I don't think you were ever really looking for feedback, you were looking for praise. Next time why not make that clear?

I apparently have a choice to make thanks to NN. I can delete my friend's list and not be able to chat to anyone, see when they post a new pic, blog or status update. Or I keep my friend's list but continue to make no public comments on blogs or status updates, or wait for NN to consider "adding another level to friends, called "intimate friends". I can also make another account to comment from but have a feeling that would get too confusing for me to keep up with.

Apparently I've been using my friend's list all wrong all along anyways! On the forum NN said, " friends was always thought of as friends you really know" So apparently I should have only had Wordweaver as a friend! He's the only one I've ever met in person! Who knew? So if we're only here to "show off" and not meet anyone I guess we shouldn't have any friends!?! I guess I didn't realize there were rules when the new friend feature was created. I thought it was a convenient way for us to keep track of those we wanted to interact with in one way or another, be that chat, perv or read their blogs, but nope only for people you actually know! So then maybe I should just delete the whole thing? I mean, yeah I met Wordweaver once, but do I really KNOW him? Does any of us really know anyone? I liked Word and all, but that doesn't mean I want him to know everything I ever do here. Hmmmm

This seems to be getting more and more complicated to me. Seems it would have been much easier to let us have the choice on what to share and what not to... but what do I know?

I only know that I'm just a house wife, not a porn star, not here for anyone's else's entertainment, not here to be stalked or even bothered when I don't want to be bothered. I just want to come here chat when I want to, perv when I want to, read blogs/status updates when I want to, and do all that privately like we used to. Am I really asking for too much? Guess so...

Plus I may have to stop publicly commenting at all

NN I love you. I know you are trying hard to update things, and keep the site "current" . I don't however appreciate the breaches in my privacy with no warning, or choice. I also know you prob. wanted to surprise us with the latest update, but exposing our personal details to everyone who is a premium member is a bit far. IMO, especially without an opt out option.

I also appreciate that you took reporting of a friend's login off until you have an opt out option. Can we please have an opt out for the whole thing?

I really hate being negative on this cuz I truly appreciate what you're trying to do but I have a few problems with this, and please correct me if I'm wrong..

The notifications show every comment you make on pictures, blogs, and threads on the forum you posted on. This is a recipe for disaster. IMO. There is no reason for someone to have that much knowledge about me all at their finger tips, on my friend's list or not. What purpose does this serve other then to cause hurt feelings, and jealousy? Yes you make these comments technically publicly, but some weren't all THAT public before!(pic and blog comments etc.)

I can see the PM's in my future now! "How come you told him he has a nice cock? I thought you liked mine?" or "You said at 10 p.m. you were going to bed, then I see you commented on his pic at 10:15! pm"

The stalking issue is another problem with this, many of us have people here we'd rather not have that kind of knowledge and to suddenly turn the friends list into something that actually means something with no notice wasn't very nice. Had we known maybe we could have mass deleted at least.

I'm leaving things as they are for now but if this stays the way it is, I'm deleting everyone off my friend's list. So it's nothing personal but I don't have the time, or the means to investigate every person before accepting them as a "friend" on an amature porn site! And I'm just not comfortable with the exposure.


Sorry to be so negative, I don't want to rain on your parade, but you did ask for feedback



Edit~ For those who have no idea what I'm talking about check out
[url]http://prem.newbienudes.com/forum/default.asp?topicid=92822&d=55201123300[/url]

or just click on the New! at the top right of the page. lol

You all know I love getting naked and naughty outdoors right? Well I discovered a draw back. Bugs!

This is what happens when after all the naughty naked fun is over and it's time to get dressed again, and you put your bra on with an unknown bug INSIDE it!!! Apparently the bug was very hungry and not at all happy about being in my bra! Should I be insulted? ;o)

I was wondering why my boob was itching like crazy on the ride home. When we arrived I disrobed to see this!





I'm not sure if the pic and resizing will do it justice. I now have 18 bites on the side of my boob! 18!!!!! I must be really tasty ;o) Looks gross though huh?

I will never understand why all these weird things always seem to happen to me!

Now who wants to come scratch my boobie?