Sugarmomma's Blog - page 20

So I was laying in bed this morning half awake and hear some noise ...I wasn't sure what it was and kept hearing it..so I laid back in bed and the neighbor texts asking if I'm missing a goat?...Goat?? what the heck.. LOL it was a goat and he came back up to the house.. here is the cute little thing.

His name is Tuxedojunction! He came by to say hello!!

I chanced coming back after I did what was right and defended a woman, who was a great woman,.. who had her personal life and personal business spread across this site, lies put out about her and then was attacked for doing what was right.

I removed certain people off of my friends list because I did not like what was done by THOSE people, not because who they are friends with, but because of how they themselves acted. Even if that was not the case, do I really need a reason to not want someone as a friend? Do I really have to explain why I don't? The whole thing about friend lists, and having the option to remove friends is so that I can choose.

I don't have to be friends with those that I do not wish to be friends with, if that means that, that person gets upset there is nothing I can do about that. However even at that, I was silent, I bit my tongue and left it alone until the drama keeps going to the point of it being put into status several times by someone other then myself. I brought up a point, a legitimate point, and that just makes it bad? Not really in my opinion.

There are options to block, remove friends, add friends, private profiles, etc etc, because that's how the site works, that's what every person on this porn site is allowed to do.

I get thrown out there because I chose to remove someone because I did not like the way that person acted, and because of that I was labeled.

Label me as you wish, think of me how you wish, but really I'm still me, I did as I thought was right, just like others do.

In the end I was true to myself, just like I am supposed to be, and I am happy with myself for it.

Sugar

Yesterday, I was taken out to do some shopping, or rather just kind of stop for coffee, and look around, but I ended up with new clothes for summer, and new make-up and even a trip into Victoria Secret.

The ride alone made the trip one in a lifetime, it was full of smiles and laughter, and even an idiot came around but this was the beautiful sight I was able to see, because the man that truly loves me felt the need to provide me with some things I needed..

Howlin and I decided to leave the site, maybe for a short time, maybe for a long period of time, or maybe even for good,.. It has nothing to do with the site personally, however everything to do with that fact that, we have a living breathing Troll on status.

It was not about 'picking sides' TG is a great person, and whatever personal business there was between her and Mon, was their business, and not for him to air all over status and blogs like he has, and if you notice, he deletes all the rude, tasteless, self incriminating blogs he had posted. NOT that there was ANYTHING between them to begin with, BUT if there was,.. then it was still something that was not be posted for the public to be seen, attacking a member through status and blogs, is of course against NN rules, and also,.. ignorant to begin with. It was on Dodoo's status, that he chose to delete at an attempt to stop the attacking,.. where he called her a slut out right on status, if you missed it, it is of course now gone and unable to be seen, however those who were here, DID see it.

Howlin and I simply stood up and defended TG and Tux, not because they are our friends, but because it was right, and its about doing the right thing,.. you can only stay on the fence with things so long before you get splinters, and that goes for anyone. Whats wrong is wrong, and there should be no harm in stating that its wrong, no matter who it is.

for those that stay, I hope you enjoy the site, I also hope you watch over your shoulder, because you never know who is going to get attacked next.

HP - gone