TNBuilder's Blog - page 17

Last Friday we went to bed and as usual I was not expecting anything, but decided to see if I could get things going with The Wife (sometimes I wonder why I bother) she was surprisingly willing and we did fuck for a bit, she came 2 or 3 times but I was not able to cum - not sure why. It was nice and I was hoping that she would be feeling bad and perhaps make the first move on Saturday night but no such luck. she did make a sort of slightly snarky move about how much attention I pay to her tits, but whatever - she has known since day 1 that I am a tit man so she should not be surprised by that.

Twice this week, I tried to get things started with The Wife when we went to bed by playing with her tits and moving to finger her. Both times after just a few seconds, she said 'ouch' that was a hair as I was fingering her (second time was last night and she had shaved smooth). Both times I stopped and she made no comment for me to try again so more proof that she just does not care about improving our sex life. Oh well, I guess I get what I get.

Back in November we purchased a travel trailer but have not had an opportunity to take it out. Finally decided to go 'glamping' about 30 minutes from home last weekend. Setup on Friday afternoon and relaxed while figuring out how everything worked. Went to bed around our usual time and I was in the mood (when an I not?) Surprisingly, The Wife was quite willing and we did have a better than average fuck. I ate her, she sucked me, I fingered her and then we fucked and as best as I could tell, she had 2 or 3 orgasms. it was nice and we were on a new Hybrid Gel mattress that we had never slept on. As we were finishing, she expressed concern that we might have stained the mattress
I had hoped for a repeat either Saturday or Sunday night but no such luck.
I will call this weekend a win for the most part.

Woke up this past Friday and for whatever reason decided to just lay in bed for a bit until The Wife got up. She woke up and I decided to see if she was 'in the mood' well, she sort of was and while it was not a great fuck, we did fuck till we both came. Sometimes it is difficult to tell if she cums or not, other times she screams or squeezes me. This was one of the more quiet times, but I believe she came once or twice. She is still working from home so no chance to fuck The Ex at this point.

Well, we went to bed last night (Sunday) and sort of cuddled up as usual and I thought The Wife was going to go straight to sleep as usual, but decided to give things a shot. She said do we still have lube (I guess she was not in the mood for foreplay) so I found some and smeared it around her pussy while I fingered her and she sucked me a bit. After a few minutes I moved to fuck her and here is where it gets 'different' We ended up fucking for over 30 minutes and I could not cum - I guess because the lube eliminated much of the regular friction - I ended up fucking her to at least 3 good orgasms and then she added her vibe and that added another super strong orgasm. After that one I still had not cum so I went to eat her a bit and she went to sucking me. After a few more minutes I felt like perhaps I was getting close and fucked her again, this time, I did cum after about 5 more minutes or so and she came again as well.
All in all, this went on for somewhere between 30 & 45 minutes - pretty amazing overall especially considering how 'vanilla' our sex has been recently.

So the last time we (The Wife and I) fucked was April 8 so 3 weeks ago. Yesterday we decided to just stay at home and use Sunday to run errands. We were sitting around and she complained that she was cold (we were still in basically pj's) I jokingly said I can warm you up and went over and pretty much draped myself over her. While doing this I felt up her boobs a bit and started grinding on her and getting a hard on. I said I will do more to keep you warm if you were in some of the lingerie that I have purchased over the years. she sort of said maybe but made no move to change. I really hoped that this would end up leading to sex later on, but nothing happening.
I do occasionally think about purchasing sexxy stuff for her, but it never gets used and over the years have bought lots of stuff and know for a fact that she has thrown a bunch of it out so money down the drain.
Just so frustrating & frustrated.
Trying to schedule time with The Ex but with The Wife working from home that is difficult.

Since we got back from vacation, I have slept upstairs separate from The Wife since she was sick (not Corona) finally started sleeping together a few nights ago and this morning I woke up horny. Did not really think I would get anywhere but figured I would try. It was a quickie, but it was a decent fuck anyway. I think that was 6 weeks since the last one, maybe more.

Well, we got back from our vacation just as things were closing down - we were in Europe and getting home was totally crazy with cancelled and rescheduled flights. What an adventure. While on vacation, The Wife and I only fucked once and it was pretty minimal in the satisfaction level. Now that we are back, we are both sort of stuck at home (I am working when I can, but her office has mandated work from home for the time being) so I am not sure when The Ex and I will get to fuck again and she is wanting it. Might get a hotel room or something - we will see.
This whole COVID 19 thing is crazy and I hope that it will pass sooner rather than later.

Edit - adding an odd detail:
I had promised to give a drawing table to a friend who house sat for us (she used to work with me) so I put it in my van and drove it to her. Now, she new well in advance that I was coming over and she has in the past worn clothes around me with holes in them that should not be there. but this time she comes outside (like 45 degrees) in nothing but a thin 'wrap' with holes everywhere and next thing I see her nipple peeking out of it. Nice, small very pink nipple! I have a serious breast / nipple fetish and that seriously got to me and I am unlikely to for get the sight for some time. I am not attracted to her so much and probably would not fuck her but nice nipple.

Well, The Ex and I worked together today, she had said she would get here early so we could fool around but she was running late (as usual). After we finished our shift we did get to it with sort of a quickie - I ate her to her usual amazing orgasm and then fucked her nicely till I came hard!

So Monday 2 weeks ago I did get together with The Ex - Ate her to one of her usual screaming orgasms, but we did not fuck, did not really bother me because I get great pleasure out of pleasing her and we were short on time. Later on in the week, I thought we would fuck, but she only had time for a shower, while in the shower, she jerked me off to an incredible orgasm for me so we were 'even'. Sunday night, I got sort of 'pushy' with The Wife (the only way there is any sex is if I push a bit) and she gave me a nice BJ and we did fuck, but it was not as pleasurable as usual.
All in all a quiet 2 weeks. I am hoping to fuck The Ex again this week and leave for a 3 week vacation on Thursday so things will be quiet from me for a few weeks.