TNBuilder's Blog - page 3

Well, it has been 3 weeks since any activity in the bedroom (although I have tried numerous times) but Friday night we had a good day and were relaxed so I thought to try again. We went to bed and I started hugging her and rubbing on her nipples as well as rubbing her back both of which are usually 'starters' for her. After probably 15 - 20 minutes of this I thought to take things a bit further but as I was doing so she gave me a very exasperated look sort of like 'Not Now' or 'Is This Really Necessary' - she did not say this, but it was in her face - I immediately stopped and told her that if she is not interested, I am not going further. WELL ...... Suddenly she is interested and starts blowing me and asking to continue, but I was no longer in the mood. she did cuddle up to me to go to sleep, but nothing happened. I sort of hoped that she would make up for this last night (Saturday) but nothing.
We did talk a bit after I shut things down and she said that we are always too tired but I pointed out that I have tried to get things going a number of times and there is no reciprocity on her part - she did not have a good answer to that .
Well, a week from now we are going on a 2 week vacation to Germany and Amsterdam so we will see how that goes.
Truthfully, there is a part of me that hopes she feels horrible when I shut things down since she did that to me for so many years.

I was feeling a bit 'amorous' and decided to see if I could get things going by giving The Wife a foot rub while we were watching TV ( I do have a bit of a foot fetish and I for the most part like her feet) I sat down on the floor in front of her and for about an hour rubbed / massaged her feet which she enjoyed. When we went to bed she somewhat indicated she was in the mood for love so we started with her blowing me and then I went down on her for a bit. Ultimately, after about 30-45 minutes we moved to start fucking but after maybe 10 minutes, she got a bad leg cramp and we had to stop. I was getting one as well, but was going to 'work through it' to finish as I was getting close. By the time she had worked out the cramp, neither of us was really in the mood to finish. We said we would start up again on Monday night but it did not happen.

well, we ended up fucking one more time (i believe it was Wednesday) and it was pretty good. Now it i Sunday and we are headed back home.

Well, we are on vacation and the Wife has been surprisingly amorous. Saturday and Sunday night she was the aggressor and i was pretty amazing. Saturday I ate her to probably 2 orgasm and Sunday we used her toy and fingering from me and she came at least twice from what I could tell. Last night we were both worn out from travel, but I am hoping for more action tonight

Well, The wife and I did fuck twice in the past few weeks, once at home and once while camping last week. Neither was exceptional, but as always, something is better than nothing. She seems 'into it' but I am never sure.

On Tuesday evening The Wife showered before going to bed which *sometimes* means she is 'in the mood' but not so much. Odd thing was that I had shaved as well but more for my comfort than anything else. moving on to Wednesday evening and we did end up having a pretty decent fuck and she was pleasantly surprised with my shave.

When we went to bed Sunday night I sort of decided I had had enough of being put off and came on fairly strong to The Wife and a bit to my surprise, she was accommodating. While it was certainly not one of the better fucks, it was not bad.

So sex with The Wife has been about a month now - late June or maybe the first week of July and no indication of anything happening soon. Yesterday The Ex came by and showered and I took a minute to suck her tits but nothing more. Today she came by and we did have a nice 30 minutes or so where I sucked her tits and ate her for a few minutes but she wanted to just fuck so a bit of lube and in I went! At the end she asked if she was still tight enough and I answered of course.
It was nice, but I would have liked to eat her to orgasm.

This past weekend, I was really hoping for a bit of action, but absolutely NOTHING - to be fair, we went to bed Saturday and I sort of tried but her back was hurting and she said, 'ok, but my back hurts' so I said 'nope, not with that reaction' and nothing since. She is prepping for a colonoscopy this weekend (on Monday) so I am guessing nothing will happen this weekend either.

Well, I am not exactly sure what day, but I think it was Tuesday night, we had a decent fuck. Did not blog it the next morning as work was crazy. Sex has slowed down a bit but it seems every 2 or 3 weeks right now.