Hmmmm....I had a "Troubled Childhood" my parents were none too stable my Mom was white. I inherited my big breasts and from what I have been told my appetite for sex from her. She passed at an early age from cancer, my Dad never got over the loss. My Dad was black. He tried but never seemed to be able to stay out of trouble. I inherited my derriere, my lips, my ability to talk my way out of bad situations from him. He was over sexed also! So my sexuality is in my DNA! LL! My Mother and Him had six kids, he was never sure they were all his -- but he accepted them all! He died at a relative young age during a silly argument over a gambling debt. His mother, my grand mother took it on her self to raise his six kids. She was all love. Hard working -- two jobs -- to try to feed us all. Church going. My older sister and I went to church with her early on (I even sang solos for the church choir!) but figured out there were ways we could help that wonderful lady not work so hard and still pay the rent and help feed our four bothers. I was a cheerleader in High school -- that helped me become an exhibitionist and get used to a lot of males looking at my body and not all that much interested in the Rah Rahs! LOL! After High School -- I found it very easy to use my "natural gifts" (My 36 - Double D Breasts) to get a job as a dancer.Since there was not much money for college tuition! LOL! My sister found that the landlord really liked her and started to date him...she found it very easy to take care of my grandmother's rent. We never told our Grandmother it would have mortified such a hard working, church lady! Since I made more in one night dancing than other girls made at a week at K-Mart -- she just figured I had a great job -- and I just had to work Nights! I meet my Husband when I was dancing. He swept me off my feet -- kind of "Pretty Women Style" -- he was "Older" and kinky. Very Kinky. I did not mind, I liked it. I developed a taste for that kind of sex. Figured , in a way it was expected of me, plus it was exciting! It was very exciting "life style". My husband and I were married for 12 years -- counting a year long engagement we were "swingers" 13 years....our whole married life. We had two marriage ceremonies one public one for family, friends and his business associates and one private one for our(his) swinger friends. needless to say it was a much different ceremony and reception for the swinger ceremony. My "regular dress" was low cute and revealing and Lacey and sexy-- my husband basically selected it. My swinger marriage ceremony dress -- there were almost two people there and I was basically NUDE! LOL! And I picked that dress out! Robert and I belonged to two Chicago swing clubs and a club in DC, LA and Phoenix. I embraced the life style and he LOVED it! but it was a secret life style. Our family and careers never knew we were singers. We had two groups of friends -- regular and "The lifestyle". I'm Just Recently divorced -- I'm NOT looking for a husband! I thought I was "The Trophy Wife" but guess what? Shock of all shock he traded me in for a newer model! LOL! I like sex. I'm not getting enough sex lately. Working too much and too hard, need to get out more and have more fun!