So I was ruminating a bit more...must be the gray weather, beats me.
Anyway, this time I started thinking about mixed messages. I was in the shower thinking about how guys are always complaining that women give mixed messages then I thought...hey wait a minute, so do guys! Most guys think they're fairly simple. Keep 'em happy in bed, well fed and stocked in beer with the remote in their hand. Well, ya know what... it really isn't that simple, is it?
I've often been told by men that they don't care what I look like, or if I have a few extra pounds on me. It doesn't matter if I don't wear make up...fix my hair just so...wear jeans and a t-shirt instead of a sexy dress...sleep in sweats instead of lingerie...etc.., They want me, they love me or whatever other platitude they're serving at the time. And they seem very sincere.
However, watch a flat stomached, hard bodied, sexy little thing who's never had kids walk by. You've never seen someone get whiplash from turning their head so fast. Hmmm, I think I remember you saying you only wanted me, I was the only one, you only have eyes for me or whatever else you said. Seems a mixed message to me.
When I tell someone that they are the only person I want, I mean it. I won't get whiplash eyeing the bodybuilder on the beach or whomever else you wish to use as an example. Then again, maybe it is me....I usually do mean what I say. I'm fairly a what you see is what you get type of person. I'm not saying I don't give mixed messages at times. I have a tendency to retreat within myself for various reasons and can often seem upset when I'm not really.
The point I'm ruminating about is that everyone gives mixed messages in different ways. Maybe we need to think about what we say and what we do before we commit to either one. And maybe we need to think about someone else before we just give in to our baser instincts. Little things certainly do mean a lot and can have a great impact on others.
Ok, that was my big thought for the day...now back to our regularly scheduled program
finished ruminating
kitt xxx