Good day, I have been with my wife monogamous for 11 years and in the beginning we had a great sex life. But over the last 2 years sex has become less and less and I an not making this up but we haven't had sex in over a year.
Now I will say that I can kinda understand her position. She is the Vice President of a company makes great money and it comes with ridiculously hours.
So with that being said I appreciate her hard work but as far as myself being a man I am left horny all the time. It gets to the point where a door knob is starting to look sexy. All jokes aside I then started thinking I am just being selfish.
Now for the interesting part, I have had a talk with her about my issue and once again I am not fabricating this but she said to me that she is just not "sexually charged" and knows she is not sexually pleasing me that she said I could be with another girl as long as she knows and as long as I don't get attached to her. She said she might watch or just sit in the living room. I kid u not I have NEVER had a girl that I was with tell me that.
Now here seems to be the problem. When she told me this over a year ago I was all in but did not realize how difficult this was gonna be. Maybe cuz I am a novice and have never done this before. Hell I haven't even had to look for a date with just one girl in 11years.
It just seems that whatever site I'm on girls shy away when I bring up my wife. And she is the one that wants me to do this.
Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated. Cuz I am horny. And btw I am an attractive guy.
I have tried everything under the sun to please myself but it's not the same as being with a nude girl
thank you and and any comments would be appreciated thank you | 