It seems strange to say words on body positivity here of all places, but since this is body positivity week and I have been foolishly given a platform in the form of this blog, i'mma talk.
I always thought that expression of sexuality and loving who you love were easy, uncontroversial things. Attraction is by definition intensely personal, and nuanced. Who wants to have a type, when there is a whole wide world of sexy shit to get into? What I find sexy depends on lots of things: whether you're an asshole is pretty central, but there's also cleverness, confidence, happiness, and other stuff. Nowhere in my criteria are ethnicity, BMI, shaving habits, assigned gender at birth, or thigh gap.
Now, i realize that millions of women aren't exactly sitting on the edge of their seats, waiting to hear that I'd do them, as the final step in order to overcome their body issues. Nobody's self esteem should hinge on whether someone else finds them hot. I also live in the real world and know that the opinions of others matter, especially among us pervs
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So, in the spirit of the times, I declare that all y'all MFers are sexy. Even you there.