Here is what I had to say to defend myself over someone else's beliefs, and their stab taken towards me, it was blocked so that no one else on the site could see it, but to make it all fair I'm posting it here to be seen.
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Just in case you can not read what I had said in this response, or if its to small for some of you to see, this is what I had wrote
Hillbillys_Pride
You have no clue what one 'victim' to another does, you have no way in knowing for absolute how someone will act or react, you, yourself can not know ALL who have been through it, and can not know how ALL will mend from it. You are not as smart as you portray yourself to be, I did what I did because with there being so many women here, ... they SHOULD know what type of person your 'meanieface' is before jumping into something, You can say I cried wolf, and I can tell you, I KNOW what I went through, I know whats happened to me, and I sure as hell know the man for what he REALLY is. You can take your jabs at me, you say what you want about me but at the end of the day it's nothing but words from a fool that is protecting someone unworthy, also I sit back and watch as it all sets in again, the controlling, the making that person feel as if she can do nothing without him, and only accomplished it because of him, so controlling to tell her who to have as a friend and who to NOT have a friend, and how she has to deal with the drama he bring up with his ex wife, simply because he is not over it, so again say what you will, believe what you will, but never tell someone how, or why they would react a certain way because EVERYONE is different. As far as i'm concerned, you are no better then someone looking the other way rather than helping. The only person doing a disservice is you,.. because you assume you know it all because you have been there and worked around it,.. but you have not seen it all, or know it all. there are many women who publicly state how they felt and why, simply just to keep moving on in life, maybe sometime you should read about it,.. would blow your theory all to shreds. Now that I have said my peace,.. you can continue to be the all knowing fool, i honestly don't care, but someday,.. something is going to happen,.. and at the moment, you will have wished someone actually heard what I had to say,.. because then someone else would not have been hurt
Hillbillys_Pride
And to add to that, we both knew you would be one of those few that did the fighting for him,.. while he sits back and pretends "Oh poor me",.. what will you tell her when he hurts her HP, what will tell her when shes crushed HP?,.. was she wrong to tell everyone about her ex the same as I?... hmm time will tell.
For the Record I am not a Victim, I am a thankful, and grateful Survivor, never put words in my mouth, ever.